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Polite Society School of Étiquette offers Beginning, Advanced, Business, and Tea Étiquette Courses. Étiquette tutelage is presented at speaking engagements, webinars, school seminars, private dinners, and specialty tea events. The School's mission is to educate adults and children in customary codes of conduct with an emphasis on everyday social graces.

Monday, January 28, 2013

THE ART OF MAINTAINING HIGH STANDARDS

The Art of Maintaining High Standards

There is an etiquette when it comes to sending text messages, as with all correspondence and I do believe one should keep his or her standards high.  New technology is in many ways a joy but one must remember it is inappropriate to sent text messages when someone has died or when announcing an engagement or even requesting a favor from someone.  Another important factor is to be considerate to those you are socializing with.  You might be dining or enjoying lunch with a family member or an acquaintance and receive a telephone call or text message.  Please do not answer or begin texting back.  

Tidiness is another obsession of mine.  As most of my friends know, I find it extremely difficult to live in a home that is in disarray.  I believe it takes very little effort to maintain a clean and tidy home.  I also believe wood should be polished, leather cleaned, and floors should be sparkling.  

Just as important is how one presents oneself.  Besides good manners, men should shave every day and women should maintain their hair and make monthly trips to the salon or spa to ensure that she is well presented.

To quote Mrs. Minerva from English Home

"Laziness is the enemy of standards and anyone who cannot spend a few minutes a day keeping up maintenance on the house or themselves will end up in a very sorry state indeed."