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Polite Society School of Étiquette offers a thoughtfully curated collection of courses designed to cultivate grace, confidence, and impeccable poise. The following courses are offered. Beginning Étiquette Course — An introduction to the essential principles of etiquette, gracious manners, and confident social interaction. Afternoon Tea Étiquette Course — An elegant exploration of afternoon tea traditions, tea-table etiquette, and the art of hosting and participating in this cherished ritual. Protocol, Decorum, & Savoir-Faire Course — A study of refined conduct, formal protocol, and the discernment required to navigate social and professional settings with confidence. The Story of Tea Course — A captivating journey through the history, culture, and traditions of tea, celebrating its enduring influence on societies around the world. Étiquette tutelage is also offered through speaking engagements, instructional webinars, school seminars, private dinners, and specialty tea events. The School's mission is to educate both adults and children in the traditional principles of etiquette and the essential social skills needed for everyday life. The curriculum encompasses the history of etiquette, social graces, dining etiquette, proper table settings, appropriate attire, protocol, decorum, and other valuable etiquette practices. Students also learn the art and essentials of preparing and serving a proper Afternoon Tea. Polite Society School of Étiquette provides students with the knowledge and skills to navigate the expectations of society with grace, poise, and confidence, empowering them to feel comfortable and self-assured in any social situation. All courses include foods and beverages as teaching aids. Interactive online training courses are available.

Friday, April 25, 2014

Sugar in Jane Austin's time.....

Sugar in the 18 century (Jane Austin’s time) was kept
locked up because it was very expensive. It was sold
in many grades, from the highly refined, pure white
sugar that only the well off could afford, down to the
darkest of brown sugars used by the poor.
Granulated sugar had been only recently invented
and was not yet widely available. Sugar was molded
into large, cone-shaped loaves weighing several
pounds each that had to be broken up or grated
before the sugar could be used. Sugar cubes would
not be invented until 1843 – if people wanted sugar
for tea, they had to first break it into irregular lumps
with special tools called “sugar nippers,” from
which practices comes the traditional question “One

lump or two?”


Monday, April 7, 2014

English-style tea....

English-style tea places the loose leaves in a pot, then pours the brewed tea through a tea strainer into a teacup.

 Be warned:  The second cup of tea may be over brewed and bitter.


Tuesday, April 1, 2014

Dining With Teacups and Saucers

When sipping tea, coffee, or other liquid from a cup, lift the cup and take a gentle sip
without making any noise. The handled cup is held with your index finger through the
handle, your thumb just above it to support your grip, and your second finger below the
handle for added security. Your little finger follows the curve of your other fingers and is
not elevated in an affected manner. If the cup and saucer are more than twelve inches
away from you, lift the cup and saucer together to take a sip. Be careful not to drop the
teaspoon off the saucer. You may place the cup and saucer back on the table in between
sips. Using a clock as in the picture below, the rest and finished position of the teaspoon
is 5 o’clock on the saucer with spoon bowl facing up. The cup handle is also placed in
the 5 o’clock position.


Rest Position And Finished Position For A Teacup And Teaspoon