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Polite Society School of Étiquette offers a thoughtfully curated collection of courses designed to cultivate grace, confidence, and impeccable poise. The following courses are offered. Beginning Étiquette Course — An introduction to the essential principles of etiquette, gracious manners, and confident social interaction. Afternoon Tea Étiquette Course — An elegant exploration of afternoon tea traditions, tea-table etiquette, and the art of hosting and participating in this cherished ritual. Protocol, Decorum, & Savoir-Faire Course — A study of refined conduct, formal protocol, and the discernment required to navigate social and professional settings with confidence. The Story of Tea Course — A captivating journey through the history, culture, and traditions of tea, celebrating its enduring influence on societies around the world. Étiquette tutelage is also offered through speaking engagements, instructional webinars, school seminars, private dinners, and specialty tea events. The School's mission is to educate both adults and children in the traditional principles of etiquette and the essential social skills needed for everyday life. The curriculum encompasses the history of etiquette, social graces, dining etiquette, proper table settings, appropriate attire, protocol, decorum, and other valuable etiquette practices. Students also learn the art and essentials of preparing and serving a proper Afternoon Tea. Polite Society School of Étiquette provides students with the knowledge and skills to navigate the expectations of society with grace, poise, and confidence, empowering them to feel comfortable and self-assured in any social situation. All courses include foods and beverages as teaching aids. Interactive online training courses are available.

Tuesday, December 18, 2012

A TRADITIONAL CHRISTMAS

A TRADITIONAL CHRISTMAS

The excitement of Christmas is inextricably linked to well-loved tradtions:  decorating the tree with glittering baubles and colourful lights, hanging capacious stockings by a blazing log fire, and wrapping up warm for Midnight Mass in a snow-covered village church.  But there are other, lesser-known customs that take place around this sceptred isle at Christmastide:  some stretch back into the darkness of pre-Christian times; others are recent inventions that combine fun with charitable aims.  What they all have in common however is spectacle, goodwill, and for those who practise them - simply the Christmas wouldn't be Christmas without them.

I am thrilled to share with you the following traditions from English Home Magazine.  

THE MUMMERS

"Roast beef, plum pudding and mince pie - who likes that better than King William and I?"  chant the Marshfield Mummers: the Old Time Paper Boys every Boxing Day, as they take to the streets to perform an age-old play complete with sword fights, violent death and hope-filled resurrection.  They are part of the mummers' tradition, with roots in medieval times, where troupes of actors stage fold-plays featuring characters such as Father Beelzebub, good St. George, and the evil Turkish Knight.

The Marshfield Paper Boys, with their rich west-country accents, earned their name thanks to the elaborate costumes they make out of coloured paper.  Farmer Dick Knight has performed with them for 60 years: "At one time, almost every village in England would have had mummers but Marshfield is probably the only one where that custome has never died."

WASSAIL

"Waes Hael", the Saxon for 'good health', was a midwinter drinking toast of sweet, spicy punch, shared in a communal cup that became known as the Wassail bowl.  In early times, carol singers would 'wassail' door to door in return for gifts of money at Christmas and New Year.  By the end of the 17th century, when cider-making had become a staple industry, the wassailing ceremony was also practised in orchards to guarantee a good harvest.  



Stay tuned...more tomorrow...




Sunday, December 9, 2012

21 DECEMBER - ST THOMAS' DAY

A Traditional Christmas in England

ST THOMAS' DAY

21 December


Once the day when adult members of each parish would give small amounts of money to their poorer, elderly neighbours.  This was known as 'Thomasing' or 'Mumpsing'.

Merry Christmas

Sunday, November 11, 2012

THE CHRISTMAS CALENDAR

Discover a key date in this festive season

Historic beginnings

11 November

A day of feasting and jollity which coincided with the annual slaughtering of livestock in preparation for winter.  In the 4th and 5th centuries this feast day was in preparation for the strict Advent fast that began the following day.

From English Home Magazine

Enjoy this Christmas Season


Saturday, November 10, 2012

Tis the season

Tis the Season....

I will be sharing some fabulous tidbits about the Christmas as I did last year.

I hope you all enjoy.  I will begin tomorrow with November 11......more later......


Wednesday, November 7, 2012

Featured in TEA in TEXAS - November/December Issue


I am thrilled to be featured in TEA in TEXAS, a travel and lifestyle magazine about people, products, and unique events for tea lovers and travel enthusiasts.
TEA in TEXAS
FOR THE HOLIDAYS SHARE YOUR LOVE OF READING
It’s that wonderful time of year for celebrating! Thanksgiving offers us an opportunity to pause and reflect on our many blessings. Hanukkah and Christmas usher in those long awaited, and much planned for, special times spent with family and friends. If part of your celebrating includes gift giving, you are in luck. The following new ‘tea reads’ will not only captivate you, but they will also likely find themselves on your gift lists.
The Art Of The Social Graces
by Bernadette Michelle Petrotta
In the hustle and bustle of today’s society, it often seems that etiquette has become a ‘thing of the past.’ However, tea parties offer the perfect opportunity to teach proper tea protocol not only to ladies ‘young in age,’ but also ladies ‘young at heart.’ The charming book entitled The Art of the Social Graces, by Bernadette Michelle Petrotta, is an excellent resource for your personal library. This compact, easy to read book includes detailed illustrations for table settings as well as helpful hints for entertaining at parties, whether small or large, informal or formal. Of special interest to tea lovers is the included section on Victorian Afternoon Tea where Petrotta shares “instructions on making the perfect pot of tea, illustrated tea settings, and dining etiquette for scones, savories, and petits fours.”
The Art of the Social Graces shares a brief history of etiquette which will provide readers with an understanding of why it is an important part of our everyday lives. The information presented on introductions, invitations, table settings, graceful dining manners as well as how to choose appropriate attire enables readers to be gracious hosts and/or guests no matter the occasion. “Whether you are a homemaker, business professional, or student… it will empower readers with confidence and learning essentials that will be life changing.”
Ms. Bernadette Michelle Petrotta is an author and small business owner, married, and has a son. In 1996 she founded the Polite Society School of Etiquette which offers “a variety of courses, speaking engagements, seminars, individual training, and instruction at private dinners and tea events.”
If your ‘cup of tea’ includes traditional teatimes and love of things international, the following two books will have a special appeal.


Wednesday, August 29, 2012

NORTHWEST TEA FESTIVAL - OCTOBER 6th & 7th, 2012


The Puget Sound Tea Education Association

I am so excited to be speaking again at this fabulous event.  I will be speaking on tea etiquette.  I have provided information below regarding the festival.  Their website is http://www.nwteafestival.com/



Come visit us
- October 6th & 7th 2012 -
Be a part of our celebration of the exciting world of tea.



The Festival is a fun and educational event about the multifaceted world of tea.  Our goal is to provide experiences covering all aspects of tea, from the cultural to the historical and the sensory to the scientific.
 
Bringing together authors, industry experts, buyers, retailers, artists, and educators, we hope you learn something new and expand your enjoyment of this most fascinating of beverages!

About PStea --
The Puget Sound Tea Education Association

In 2007 the PStea organization came into existence to commemorate the 400th anniversary of the introduction of tea to Europe. The first tea from China arrived in Amsterdam in 1607 changing forever the drinking habits of Europe and, ultimately, the Americas.
To commemorate this anniversary, five Seattle based tea companies -
  • Barnes & Watson Fine Teas
  • The Perennial Tea Room
  • Teahouse Kuan Yin
  • Village Yarn And Tea
  • Tea Geek
- all came together and created an organization whose goals are to expand the knowledge about and promote all aspects of tea, from the cultural to the historical and the sensory to the scientific.
With a vision of an organization providing information and education on tea in all of its cultural formats as well as its variety of styles. The Northwest Tea Festival was begun as the first step in this process. It is our goal to expand our educational focus to regular programs throughout the year - dinners, tea tastings, trips to countries of origin - all of these are potential endeavors of the PSTea. We invite you to join us and share and expand our vision.
The Northwest Tea Festival is brought to you by The Puget Sound Tea Education Association (PStea). 
Bringing together authors, industry experts, buyers, retailers, artists, and educators, we hope you learn something new and expand your enjoyment of this most fascinating of beverages!
Our founding members are:
Deborah Barnes, Village Yarn & Tea
Michael Coffey, Tea Geek
Marcus Gramps, Teahouse Kuan Yin
James Norwood Pratt, author of New Tea Lover's Treasury
Julee Rosanoff, Perennial Tea Room
Ken Rudee, Barnes & Watson Fine Teas




Tuesday, August 14, 2012

AMAZON RATING ON THE ART OF THE SOCIAL GRACES BY BERNADETTE M. PETROTTA

THE ART OF THE SOCIAL GRACES

RANKED #1 IN TABLESETTING


I am thrilled to see all of my efforts come to fruition.  I worked so very hard on this endeavor and I am pleased so many of you are purchasing my book.  Thank you so very much.